Symbolism Interpretation of Marriage Rites: Kom Marriage

Symbolism Interpretation of join Rites Kom matingABSTRACTThis paper go forth take a look at kom handed-downistic wedding nonice solemnitys and the four stages the constitute the actual sexual nitty-gritty in Kom. It leave aloneing deject by citing where Kom is situated, the various 8 satellite villages that made up the Kom common people, which be Achain, Akei, Baiso, Baicham, Bueni, Mbesinaku, Mbenkas and Mejang. How they perceived pronounceure, how uniting is designd in this society. This ethnographical regulate go forth excessively look at the four stages of man and wife in this corporation which comprises of courtship, Si Lun Ibi ( to ask for Kola- which means ask the girls elapse for marriage), Ndo Wi ( the house of the wife) and ultimately the actual traditional marriage which is the Ncha Wi ( the chains of the wife). During the course of collecting info I switch take in to consideration the exemplary definition of marriage services during the f our stages of marriage particularly the use of imagery. The paper impart also focus on the importance of marriage and the factors that prohibits marriage in this society. Lastly, the paper allow for look at the socio ethnic evolution of marriage in kom, trying to comp argon the ancient and present marriage, the effect on the Kom tradition and its undual-lanes. Also the ways of over coming transgressors involved in this marriageTo effectively carry unwrap and communicate this ethnographic work, opposite kickoffs and techniques allow be used to collect and analyze the data respectively. diametrical secondary source allow be efficiently utilized. As regards uncomplicated sources, field trips, interviews, coach observations, questionnaires and other methods used to carry out ethnographic research will be exploited, the use of native narration. Fin e trulyy, data will be analysed with the use of both qualitative and quantitative techniques. Tables, percentages, charts and g raphs will be used later sorting, classify analyzing and interpreting the data.INTRODUCTION espousals in Kom is believed to be the oldest social body that has ever existed invented by homo. Marriage ceremony in Kom consuetude four stages and a series of ceremonys, these rites argon very exemplary in traditional marriage process.Marriage in kom begins with secret seeing between the boy and the girl until they deplete decided to sire it official for their families. The trade union of man and cleaning lady in Kom compulsorily begins with introduction which is not a form of marriage but the path to marriage this is the very archetypally step which makes marriage as make doledgeableness. A man or woman piece of tail obtain a prestigious traditional title when he/she is wed. This goes alongside with trinity weighty aspects that accompanied marriage. Wain (a small fry), ifuonjini (food) iyamngvin (the jungle animal). These three Kom three fingers be very important any mar ried mates lives in that a successful family must(prenominal) have children food and the head of the family must be bullnecked to defend and protect and fend for the family. While the woman must provide food take care of the children and be strong as the jungle animal to carryout her matrimonial duties.Marriage in Kom flowerpot both be polygamous or monogamous it depends on the unmarried concerned. Apart from the traditional marriage which comprises of three main phrases of which families choose either to do all or just one, there are also rough other forms of marriages the civil marriage, and the religious marriages. These two other marriages are choices of families thus they are not of traditional importance to the Kom society. What can be defined as a marriage bit is the marriage rite which plays an important role in marriage ceremony. With the absence of these rites the marriage procedure is considered fruitless. As time is passing by the Kom concourse have experienced evolution in marriage procedure and rites, that is why this paper will seek to start out while marriage have evolved? What have caused the evolution? and the effect of it on traditional marriage rites and Kom tradition as a whole which the people see it as occupationatic to their culture. hassle STATEMENTIn matrilineal societies desire kom bride-wealth is not transferred because the children belong to the wifes order or lineage and will inherit from their mothers group the husbands heirs are his sisters children, and not his own children who instead inherit from his wifes brothers, their maternal uncles. In Kom tradition, the groom is asked to generate bride price in cash and in material form like the various drums of oil, meat fire wood and host of other subsidiaries. This grand demands scared many young manpower from tieing. several(prenominal) migrate and work in the plantations for year to get the necessary items for marriage, this make intimately of them to marry late since they have to work for years to obtain what will be demanded from them by their prosperous in laws.Another factor that hinders marriage is the cultural notion of witchcraft, the period given to the grooms family to wait, is usually the time the brides family consults a divine to know the social background of the groom. The things they always look for are witchcraft, murderer, disorder like madness, and mysterious death. When any of these ills are found they proposal will be turned down. The fact that marriage at times is strategic it is a problem to these people because background survey must be done to accord marriage which means it is not based on recognise.Intercultural marriages are also a hindrance to marriage in Kom, parents do not allow their child to marry out of the tribe because some cultural ideologies. For recitation daughters and countersigns are no figure to get married to Bayangi tribe this because the tribe is noted for sorcery. A kom daughter or son that d oes this, invites evil into the tribe thus some people remain unmated because the tho companion suitable for marriage is from this tribe.Forceful marriages also hinders to marriage, in this society people are forced to marry because of poverty. For example the familys only way to recover its investment in a daughter may be to have her married in exchange for a dowry. well-nigh fathers forced their daughters into marriages with men wealthy enough to give cattle, goats and money in some cases the father owns the responsibility to get a wife for his first son. Thus he forces his girl child to a man who will devote her bride wealth so that it can be transferred to his sons wife. The optence of the individual is considered insignificant, in this situation even if the marriage holds it does not last for long, the couple end up in devoice.Education brings about class separatism in the society, people who are educated go for educated partners for marriage .Those who carry the w eight -spot of this cultural practice are the females, and there is the problem of discrepancies in social values some parents, especially in Kom, prefer sending only their male children to school and keeping the females at home. They urge that female education is a bad investment, the educated female child would later grow up and marry into another family, and so all her education would only benefit her husband and her new family. With modernity these girls suffer a set back in marriage because they educated men go looking for learned women even out of the tribe.RESEARCH psycheTo what extent has the socio cultural evolution of marriage affected traditional marriage rites and Kom culture?With respect to this main research question the following particularized questions can be asked.What is marriage to a Kom man?Why do people marry?Who is entitled to marriage?What age is one suppose to get married?Is marriage same today as the past?What are the changes?What are the causes of these chang es?What are the impacts of these changes on marriage?OBJECTIVESTo answer the supra questions, the following objectives shall be considered.Specific objectivesTo point out the evolution of traditional marriage rites from past to presentTo assess the effect of evolution on Kom cultureTo investigate the strategies they are using to maintain these ritesFinally to treasure the positive effects of evolution in this institution of marriage.METHODOLOGYThis investigation will be carried out in dissentent parts of the eight satellites villages that make up the Kom kingdom.The methodology use will be divided into two parts data collection and data analysis. info and culture CollectionData for ethnographic work will be amass from primary and secondary sourcesAcquisition of Secondary dataData will be collected from both published and unpublished secondary sources. They will include documents and relevant web sites on the Internet. These documents will include textbooks, archives, dissertation s thesis, journals, periodicals, powder store and native narratives.Acquisition of Primary DataThis will involve fieldwork. Fieldwork constitutes a major source of data in anthropological research. That is field trips, interviews, direct observations and questionnaires. This will be in light to obtain information symbolic interpretation of marriage rites different parts of the eight villages. Approximately cxxx people will be interviewed, random sampling methods will be used to interview those concerned. This will be accomplished by slack interviews and interaction with the main actors. Participant observation will not be lift out since this will help to get first hand information on how the marriage rites is being carried out. This information will be collected with respect to the social, cultural and historical perspective of the tribeData AnalysesAfter collecting these data, it is going to be sorted, classified, analyzed and interpreted. The data will be analysed with the use o f both qualitative and quantitative techniques. Tables, percentages, charts and graphs will be used.DELINEATION RESEARCH DOMAINThematic enactment of Research subjectMarriage is a social, religious and traditional legal union of individuals that creates kinship. It is the oldest institution which can be found in every human culture, although the forms and rules differ either polygamy, monogamy etc.All traditional marriages ceremonies have rites that give it a special grandeur. These rites are having symbolic meaning attached to the people of a particular culture. The word symbolic comes from the word symbol which can be anything such as objects, picture, sound, sign, mark, or any gesture that represents a different meaning, for example cam wood symbolises blood or danger and flannel stands for purity. at that arrayfore, symbolism is the ironical representation of something that carries a particular meaning. Marriage rites are all symbols and meaning of different things in differ ent cultural context. exploitation is simply the act of change from one stage to another for example the change of traditional marriage rite from past to present.Geographical and Socio-Cultural Delineation of Study AreaKom is one of 250 indigenous ethnic groups or tribe of Cameroon which is situated about is 50 miles from the North West capital of Bamenda. There almost 126,000 inhabitants with an area of about 300 square miles. Kom is found in Boyo division with its administrative capital Fundong. It has three sub divisions Belo, Njinikom and Bum. There are 8 satellites villages that make up this tribe Achain, Akei, Baiso, Baicham, Bueni, Mbesinaku, Mbenkas and Mejang. The people speak Itaing Ikom as their language it is the only unique tribe in the province that practice matrilineal line of descend where succession and marriage enthronement lies in the mother line.LITERATURE REVIEWTraditional marriage is a very interesting topic and has been of great concern to researchers and writ ers. They have tried to know what married is all about, those involved in married, the rites fulfiled during traditional marriage that station as members of that community, and the problems they face in married. They are also seeking to aim some proposed solutions to these problems. The works of these researchers or writers will be analyzed in regard to this ethnographic research work in the subsequent paragraph. tally by the (Journal of Religion and Science Published 15 2005 2010 by the joint publication Board of Zygon, rituals serves to express those cosmic beliefs not for the scientific office of explaining or controlling the cosmos but for the existential purpose of bragging(a) human beings a sharpenin it. This journal points out that it expresses beliefs about society not only by keeping human beings in their social place but giving them a social place. The traditional rite perform during traditional marriage in Kom gives the couple concern a place in the society of Kom. It gives them the base to perfom other rituals within their marriage and out of the marriage unit also thus it gives them a wider place in the social unit in the society.(Jayaram V 2000-2010 Hinduwebsite.com). He potrays the marriage rite perfom by the Hindu society during traditional wedding, the fire ceremony ( homam). The inspirational fire is lit and the priests chant sacred mantras offering obligations to various gods to make marriage a succes and bless the couple. This is in line with the Komtraditional marriage rite where fire is the only objectthat lits the house when the bribe is being bnrought forward to the would be family. This rite symbilse unity and love between the two families, to the Kom people is the source of food and food brings love and unity to families andthe society at expectant.(John border 2000 ) in his writing states that marriage is a sacrament of marital love which finds its further expression in parents love for fruit of their sexuality. This was th e case in Kom in the past, marriage was considered to be fruitful if their union was blessed with children. Today, this education is far fetch people get married not because the unavoidableness to get children but because they have some other particular string section attached to it for wealth and adventure. Thus children are not really important in marriage in kom as compare to the past. You can find a family without children, therefore marriage as a sacrament of marital love which finds its further expression in parents love for their sexuality is besides exist.(Kramers K Gthinji 2008 ) view point about traditional marriage , is a marriage between between a man and woman which is the most acceptable form of marriage in the society. To him traditional marriage conforms to the traditional culture and religion and this can be polygamy or monogamy. These marriage categories is cultural accepted by it depends on individual to chose which type of marriage to go in to. In Kom polygam y was the highly practise marriage this was because a large family means wealth. Those who could not afford enough to go for many wives practiced monogamy. With the evolution of time and modernity,marriage in this society is monogamy people scarce do go for polygamous marriages again.CONCLUSIONMarriage is a union between people and it is the oldest institution that has ever existed since from creation when God created man woman as husband and wife. Marriage should be based on love it should not be a trade where human beings are sold as commodities as the case of bride price, where men are tasked to pay higher bride price if the bride is educated. Some traditional rites should be modernised, traditional leaders should put a moderate price for bride price and a fix amount of material goods for this purpose if only if the goods are of important to the marriage. Some rite should be kept out of the scene of marriage. In a nut shell marriage rituals are good because they attaches a ac cord important to marriage, some of them are prayers for a fruitful marriage. 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